PEER GROUPS

Hello Everybody!

I want to talk about my peer group.

Well, actually is a little bit complicated to visit my friend as I usually did, the answer: I have 3 children and very little free time.

I have two different kind of friends: one with old friends in different situation as I (we often call us but we see little) and another with childs with similar ages as mine.

Something curious with the second peer group is the status is very similar: young couple with two or three children, living in similar houses, our child go to same school or similar and very similar economic and culture status.

Anyway, I don´t have a big group of friends but I know they are  best friends because, as I  have seen, I can call them for good or bad events and although the time have passed.

I think  our control mechanism are very soft, they are  based on the amount of time without hearing from each other and to give views on specific situations or problems because your opinions affect to a complete family and you must to be careful.

I don´t want to imagine what would happen when a couple of friends get divorced or one friend steal the husband/wife of another friend… I wish I  have not see it!